WHO CAUSED IT?



Written by Marco Boahen Frimpong
18th August, 2018              10:44 am


You are a young woman of age 18
Your breasts are as straight 
as a child stretching for food
Your buttocks are as big 
as an articulator truck’s tyre
Your beauty is unimaginable

No man can pass by you 
without turning back to look at you again
Many men have fallen into gutters
Many have found themselves 
in the middle of roads
With cars honking on them 
but they cannot hear

Due to your beauty men chase you around
And you openly deliver yourself to them 
like an EMS delivery agent
You get pregnant and Kofi rejects it
Kwame denies it
Kwasi threatens to sue you 
for imposing someone’s pregnancy on him

You give birth without a husband
And your national anthem becomes
Men are wicked but my question 
remains the same
"Who caused it?"

You finally marry a rich man
That is after You turned over a new leaf
Your husband gives you all your needs
But you feel insatisfied
No one can understand you 
but you are not happy
Your husband can’t comprehend
Because he knows he is doing all he can
All to make you happy but you aren’t

Do you know what the problem is?
All your sexual encounters 
left daunting challenges on you
Your husband can’t give to you 
what you used to get
You think your husband 
should perform all the wonders
Your former boyfriends performed on You
You drive your husband away with this attitude

Your husband leaves you 
because he doesn’t want to die young
You meet other men but suffers the same problem
You cry out with a shout saying
“God, why are all these happening to me?”
But my question again is, “Who caused it?”

My wonderful ladies
Don’t let how you were brought up
Be your instrument of destruction
It wasn’t your fault
Don’t let your friends
Lead you to do 
what you never planned of doing
But it isn’t too late to change
The things that men do 
always live with them
Give God’s grace the chance 
to work in your life
God bless you all.

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